Month: December 2021

Grief Makes You Beautiful

It was 2017. I was visiting Turkey and decided to meet up with two of my dear friends. One of them had just lost her father. Through habit, I checked her chakras silently as soon as we met. Her chakras were what I call beyond open. Beyond open chakras not only rotate beautifully, they are the chakra state of pure love. It is the kind of love that fills you and pours out of you. As my friend was talking about her pain of loss, I could see the beauty of the love pouring out of her. She was activated to be a beacon of love for her family. Her love made her shine. Her love made her beautiful. (I talk about it in this interview.)

I recently came across this excerpt from a mindfulness teacher that I love: 

“In the Lakota/Sioux tradition, a person who is grieving is considered most wakan, most holy. There’s a sense that when someone is struck by the sudden lightning of loss, he or she stands on the threshold of the spirit world. The prayers of those who grieve are considered especially strong, and it is proper to ask them for their help. You might recall what it’s like to be with someone who has grieved deeply. The person has no layer of protection, nothing left to defend. The mystery is looking out through that person’s eyes. For the time being, he or she has accepted the reality of loss and has stopped clinging to the past or grasping at the future. In the groundless openness of sorrow, there is a wholeness of presence and a deep natural wisdom.” ― Tara Brach, True Refuge: Finding Peace and Freedom in Your Own Awakened Heart

If you or someone you love is going through intense grief, look them in the eye and tell them how extraordinarily beautiful they are. Tell them how lucky you are to witness them. If they are not ready to hear you in words, speak to them silently heart to heart. If this is you, extend the same kindness to yourself. And know that as long as you love, you are in service to all life.

With love and light,

Damla

Embracing The Season

As we are getting closer to the Winter Solstice on December 21st, the days are getting shorter and temperatures colder here in the Northern hemisphere. It feels like days will always be this short but they won’t be, there will be more and more sunlight coming in soon.

Finding out what we are made up of happens at times like these. Just like the seasons, we go through our own life’s cycles where the light may be dim or non-existent. It doesn’t always give you hope to know that light and sunny days exist while you are in the middle of a cold winter.

I invite you to embrace where you are in life and the season you are in, in all its colors and perhaps dimmed light. Perhaps there are visions to be had in the candle-light of grief instead of the sunlight of joy. Perhaps you are meant to discover the quiet treasures in you as opposed to the louder and more obvious ones. Perhaps what you are going through right in this moment has a gift for you even though it may not be in a pretty package.

Here’s what is giving me a lot of joy this season:

This artist’s video all about the beauty of the sunlight in all seasons

This yummy vanilla flavored warming tea

These snow plow names selected by school children (My favorite is Jennifer Snowpez 😄)

This website that lets you find out local places to recycle plastic film and bags (in the US)

This electrolyte drink supplement that tastes amazing

This underwear brand with Baby Yoda, Christmas, and Game Of Thrones design selections (You’ll get 20% off your first order with this link)

This book that explains Buddhism and what it means to be enlightened

This fun addition to my daily intuitive check-in tools collection

With love and light,

Damla

Anielle Reid – Healing Through Your Magick

In this Conversations With Healers episode, my guest is Anielle Reid, Psychic Medium Channel and Author of oracle card decks Magick & Mediums Oracle, The Slavic Oracle, and The Golden Light Oracle. Anielle and I had a really interesting conversation about:

  • Her creation process for the oracle decks and how each deck corresponded to a special transformation in her life,
  • What you can do with oracle decks and how different decks can help you with life’s questions,
  • How to better get in touch with your intuition (it is simpler than you think),
  • Her advice for leaving fear behind,
  • And more.

My favorite healing nugget from Anielle isPeople focus on things that aren’t their intuition and their own magick. Just increase the amount of time you aren’t in fear. Try to spend one hour in love and keep increasing that time.”

You can find out more about Anielle and her work at her websiteShe is generously offering 10% off all her decks and psychic medium sessions with the coupon code ‘witch’.

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With love and light,

Damla

(Photo Credit for Damla: Eye Sugar Photography)

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