What if I told you that you are an open sky? Just as the Earth doesn’t end at the crust, you extend within and beyond your skin like an endless sky.

You are weaved into life and life is weaved in you. Just like clouds within clouds, winds within winds. You are touched by life and life is touched by you.

You carry all the moments you lived, live and ever will live, in this moment. It is all in you, existing right here. Like the rain clouds carrying the almost full droplets, as well as the remnants of water having fallen or just now rain happening with full force.

You extend beyond what you think is possible. Like water: living, re-living, re-birthing yourself.

You are the possibility, happening amongst possibilities. Enjoy spreading your wings. Enjoy riding the winds.

With love and light,

Damla

Let’s take a moment and salute where you are. Recognizing how far you have come. How many times you stumbled, fell down and lifted yourself back up despite everything.

Saluting your healing journey. Saluting the many layers of your being. Knowing with each layer you see, know, heal, you get another layer underneath waiting to be unfolded. Noticing the love it took to get to know each layer as well as the courage.

Making peace with stumbling. Knowing that every time you struggled, you had another chance to decide to heal. Even when it felt like you made zero progress, you were already a different person than the last time. It’s like what Samuel Beckett says: “Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.”

Understanding that all of this, all that life throws at you, all that you are is part of a big beautiful, complex puzzle, with each piece, each moment so very beautiful and meaningful just as it is. Saluting where you are, with all my heart.

With love and light,

Damla

In case you need it, here is a gentle reminder that the universe has your back. It is working through you, in you, for you, with you to keep you on the best possible life path. Your best possible life path is an ever-changing, evolving, moment-to-moment unfolding energetic creation.

It is in the universe’s best interest to keep you on that path. Because when you trust and begin to dance with life, you are shining, truly shining. Universe could definitely use more shining people.

Things are conspiring for you and not against you. You are an essential, delicious, miraculous piece of the loving universe. You are loved, you are celebrated, you are guided and supported.

Please trust that life is on your side, supporting you, throwing you resources, conversations, love and opportunities to thrive, giving you all that you need every moment including what you need to learn and grow. There is a wind beneath your wings. Close your eyes, imagine your wings and feel the gentle and loving lift, shimmy with it, dance with it, fall in love with it.

With love and light,

Damla

Life feels heavy when you don’t open up to the possibility of magic. It is important not to give into your tendency to push magic aside. This involves a simple intention of staying present to what this moment offers, and then the next, and then the next.

Becoming aware is a decision. It means you open up to all you feel, with all the intensity. When you feel life with as much power as you can, without pushing anything away, you cannot help but touch the enchantment of life.

There is magic weaved in everything you are going through right now, however painful it may feel. Life is full of magic, complete and utter enchantment, all you need is opening up to sensing, noticing, and allowing it to be a part of your unfolding.

With love and light,

Damla

I want you to know that you are magic.

From the outside what may be occurring in a healing session may look like magic. As soon as I go into your field (usually just by thinking of you), I may tell you where your wounds are and as we dive in deeper together, I’ll tell you exactly what age they happened to you and who was involved and what they were feeling, saying or not saying at the time, and even though what happened when you were born, then at age 4, 15 and 28 seemingly may have nothing to do with each other or with what you are going through right now, we’ll soon discover that they have been related all along and it all makes sense in an unusual, magnetic, poetic, weird and fantastic way. And as we name the things that need to be seen, heard and understood, they lose their hold on you and suddenly possibilities, space, and breathing room open up in your chest, throat, heart, or wherever you needed life force the most.

Here’s the truth: you are the magic allowing things, energies, and patterns that you have been carrying to get untangled. Showing up at my doorstep with courage despite having gone through hell and perhaps still going through it. Holding out hope for healing and gathering all your dignity, your will for and faith in life even though it has been hard. Putting your trust in me and this thing that we do together to uplift, transform, and add sparkles back into your existence.

I am in service to you for as long as I can. I bow to you and your courage for going on a journey with me by trusting your intuition and nourishing your hope that life will be and can be better, that you can feel better and lighter.

And if we haven’t worked together yet and you are still unsure of how to begin untangling your energetic wounds by yourself, or with me or somebody else holding the space for you, all you need is the decision to trust your own soul to light the way and be open to being amazed and surprised every step of the way. 

With love and light,

Damla

In the realm of healing, resistance is something that needs to be understood and talked about. When there is any type of change happening in your life or in the times that you most need something to change, you will experience resistance. More often than not, ‘what is’ prefers to stay as it is. Yet change and flow are essential to our existence.

Even when you have a great desire to change and shift things in your life, you will run into resistance. Sometimes it shows up as tendencies, habits, or emotional outbursts you can’t seem to get out of. Sometimes it shows up as avoiding what you know in your bones is really healing and good for you. Sometimes it is you, sometimes it plays out in the people around you.

It is all about push and pull. Every decision has a magnetic quality. When you make a life-affirming decision and act on it, you are creating a magnetic pull in a certain direction. All the decisions and vibrational experiences that came before then also carry a magnetic pull. The question is which direction is stronger.

The next question is, which direction are you feeding? With every life-supporting, life-enhancing, life-affirming thought, intention, word, and action, you create a new reality and a new direction for yourself. When the old thoughts, intentions, words, and actions begin to push you back, you can always choose a different life-supporting direction.

What I find often is that the wounds contribute a whole lot to resistance. Sometimes just holding a positive vibration isn’t enough. It becomes necessary to look at what wounds lie underneath the pull of resistance. When a certain unhealthy vibration from your childhood or adolescence is stuck in your field, it becomes a whole lot harder to sustain a life-affirming flow of energy in your life.

If you find that the pull of your resistance is too strong for you to handle, let’s chat about what wound might be contributing to it and figure out how to go beyond it. 

With love and light,

Damla